Blame Not (Episode Eight)

Blame Not The Righteous Man Who Cannot Please His Woman. 

Hi people. It is with a stony heart that I write today’s episode of Blame Not. It’s a topic one shouldn’t have to say but it is also a topic that one must say. This is because, as you have come to realise, I don’t mince words and I speak very bluntly. Saying the truth as I see it and as the world knows it to be but sometimes choose to reject. 

Since the dawn of time, there has been one consistency that has always existed on our God-given earth. That consistency is experience. In order to excel at anything, one requires regular practice.

Unfortunately, many find themselves whether by choice or not, doing something with no experience or guidance, on how to perform. Fortunately, we still have very righteous and God-fearing men who abide by the strict laws of most forms of religion which does not permit a man to lay with a woman until after marriage. However, these men are the subject of this article who get married with no experience on how to appropriately satisfy the wife. 

These brave men try, and some do succeed in learning the art of pleasing a woman on their own. But quite a significant number never learn the art, because not everyone is born the same, and not everyone has the instinct required to figure things out all on their own. Thereby preventing yet another woman from ever knowing what it feels to attain true sexual healing.

Many devout will argue that sex is only meant for procreation, which may be true because that is its primary objective. But then again, what is the primary objective of an erogenous zone, and why did God place it in only humans? 

In many religious places of worship, marriage classes are conducted for single people about to get married and its primary objective is to teach them how to make marriage work. This is all good and well, but why not also conduct sex classes for newly-wedded couples, seeing as sex is now religiously legal and a key ingredient that makes the soup of marriage so much sweeter. If such classes were conducted, believe me when I say that it would save so many marriages from crashing, because quite a lot of them are experiencing problems due to an unsatisfactory sex life. Despite this being the cause of a number failed marriages and it becoming a rising statistic, sex classes are not being considered for newly-wedded couples in many places of worship.

Now am not saying that all single men should go out and indulge in premarital sex in order to gain experience before getting married, because they may not find a remedy to an unsatisfactory sex life for their wives. What I am saying though is that, a married woman shouldn’t be quick to complain that her husband cannot satisfy her. She should however be happy she is the only woman he has touched and may ever touch, God willing. Who wouldn’t prefer to know her man never slept with any other woman. 

I was wondering though, what the definitions of fornication and adultery were and why adultery is only in the ten commandments. 

Nevertheless, blame not a religious man who cannot please his woman right, for he never got to know how.